I have distinct memories of occasions when my kids wandered off. I think each of my four kids took their turns. I remember neighbours running around the neighbourhood to help locate our wandering child (most were fellow parents who understood the indescribable anxiety of a lost child). Everyone pitches in.
I know many people that have young adult children who are wandering from their faith. Some of them stopped believing in Jesus entirely, others have just stopped allowing Him to be Lord of their life because other things have been given control in their lives, and the parents are heartbroken. We all know someone like this. What can we do? What should we do?
James 5: 19-20 “My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.”
According to this passage, none of us are powerless where the wanderer is concerned. We are clearly given encouragement to help these dear ones find their way back to God.
What does this look like? I doubt it comes in the form of a good lecture, but rather in love lived out. We take that pocket full of pearls wherever we go, ready to take one out and share it, as God gives opportunity.
I think of the years one of our loved ones was off wandering, and those who loved them spoke kindly and tenderly to them and prayed for them. These are kindnesses my husband and I will never forget.
To love patiently, to love kindly, never giving up, not holding their failures against them, these are the ingredients of steering these beloved sheep back to their Shepherd, who sees and loves them always.
I love how God says, “is my arm too short that I cannot save?” (Isa 59:1 a). God asks each one of us to keep our eyes open for opportunities to love and care for those who are off wandering. Speak the truth in His tender love as you have opportunity, for our silence changes nothing! These dear ones are so precious to God.
May God lead you and I to love and gently restore a wandering soul when the opportunity arises. Love well my friends!
Dear Father,
You are the Good Shepherd, and I thank You for the invitation to help restore wandering sheep. I ask that You give me wisdom and insight, the right words to say at the right time. Lead me Father, I am Your servant.
In Jesus Name,
Amen.